I am Not the Woman You are Looking for...

Not the woman you are looking for

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I am an endlessly imperfect, wild and messy creature that knows nothing about following the generally accepted rules.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I will disturb you.

I will intimidate you.

I will make you wonder things.

I will take you out of your comfort zone.

I will introduce you to a brand new world you didn’t even knew.

I will make you question the way you have lived before meeting me.

I will possibly even scare you.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I will take you to random and weird places and make you fall in love with the magic of the ordinary.

I will surely make you feel extraordinary.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I won’t measure success by how much money I make.

I won’t need to fall in love to appreciate how much love I already have in my life.

I won’t be torturing my body to look a certain way just because you other people like it better.

I won’t be seduced by how much money you make or which car you are driving.

I won’t be present if you are always absent.

I won’t smile for you when I feel like crying.

I won’t be tempted to make so much money I forget what is really important.  

I won’t work when I feel too sick or too tired.

I won’t be up all night waiting for a call that never comes.

I won’t listen to excuses if that’s all you can offer me.

I won’t love you when doing so starts to feel self-destructive.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I won’t need to be in love to feel fulfilled.

I won’t need a ring to feel committed.

I won’t need a commitment to be loyal.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I won’t need your presence to shine, to laugh or to feel wonderful in all the ways that I know that I already am.

I won’t need you to travel the world. I have done it several times already on my own, with my messy hair and my crazy thoughts pushing me to discover any unknown corner of this magical world we live in.

I won’t feel the pressure to marry just because other people are doing so.

I won’t feel the pressure to have kids only because society believes I should.

I will never believe that I need to have kids to feel complete. There are plenty of other wonderful things that I know I am meant to do.

I won’t need you to start a new project or a new business. I can do it by myself.

I won’t need your desire to feel sexy.

I won’t need your compliments to feel beautiful.

I won’t need your support to feel powerful.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I won’t try to keep you interested, because I know I am interesting.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I won’t need you to love myself. I love my self too deeply already.

I won’t need your approval to feel valuable.

I won’t need your validation to feel important.

 

I am not the woman you are looking for…

I won’t need you, I’ll want you.

And that will make all the difference.

 

I won’t need you, I’ll want you.
And that will make all the difference.
I am Not the Woman You are Looking for...